Saturday, October 8, 2016

Deadheading

A few weeks ago, I bought some mums at Wal-Mart. I LOVE mums in the fall! The colors are absolutely gorgeous, and they will keep coming back year after year. And I especially love mums when they are on CLEARANCE! I scored a huge mum (like the one you sit out by your front door) for... wait for it... $2.50! I know, I should have bought like 20 of them, but alas, I didn't have room in my van. The kids needed somewhere to sit. They were beautiful yellow (one of my favorite colors!) and looked great out in front of my house.



But after a couple of weeks, the beautiful yellow flowers started turning a not-so-lovely brown. ~sigh~ So this morning, I started deadheading them.

Deadheading is where you pinch off the dead or dying blooms. Not only does it make your plant look better (and not like it's on it's last leg), but it encourages new growth. Get rid of the old and bring in the new. You can't always see the new growth right away, because sometimes it hasn't popped out yet. And sometimes you have to look really close because it's there but just hidden behind the dead blooms. But if you do the hard work of deadheading, and if you trust the process, the new growth WILL appear.

Deadheading plants is so much like life. We go through seasons. We go through relationships. We have changes. And sometimes, God asks us to do the hard work and deadhead some of those things that once were good. Here are some of the things I have found needed deadheading in my life.

1. A Calling - I spent many years in children's ministry. I loved it! It energized me and made me feel like I was about to jump out of my skin with excitement each week! I thought I would do it forever. But there came a new season, a slower season, where God pulled me out of that ministry. THAT, my friends, was HARD to deadhead! It's hard to KNOW without a doubt that you were called to something, and then to trust God and let go of it when the time comes and He calls you to something else. But God needed me to do the work of letting go of that good thing to make way for the NEW, BETTER thing He had for me. It has taken some great faith, because I couldn't see the good in it for a long time. But God is faithful! And because of my obedience, He has brought some new growth and calling in my life!

2. Friendships - There have been some relationships in my life that have been LIFE GIVING! Amazing friendships that were AMAZING! But there are some that, for whatever reason, are just toxic. Friends who just suck the energy right out of you. People who, even though you love them, just cause dread in your spirit when you think of seeing or talking to them. Sometimes our best efforts at being a great friend and being there for someone just don't work out. I have begun to be on guard for toxic relationships and deadhead those. Because even though it hurts to let go of people I love, God has such healing in it's place. (And believe me, ladies, you need some healing after a toxic relationship!) And God is faithful! He has brought into my life some of the greatest people, NEW FRIENDSHIPS, simply because I trusted Him.

3. Some Dreams - I have said for nearly my whole life that I am a gypsy at heart. My dream life is to travel the world. I really think I could move every 2 years and be perfectly happy. Living a life on the move, seeing new places, doing new things, trying new foods - that just speaks to me! But I finally realized that, even though that sounds like a ton of fun, that wasn't God's dream for me. He had MUCH BIGGER plans! So even though my dreams weren't really bad, they had to be deadheaded. THAT was really hard, too!! Because when you decide to give up a dream and trust that God has something better, but you can't see any of it right at that moment, it's really scary! I felt like I was giving up everything and would have nothing left! I mean, what are we without dreams?! But God is faithful! When I gave up MY dreams and started seeking HIS dreams for my life, He has opened up some new adventures I never thought of! And it's all from right here on my little plot of land. There are so many NEW dreams springing up in my heart, all of which are in line with what God wants for me. I gave up the good to have the BETTER.

There are so many other things in my life that have had to be deadheaded. As seasons change, we have to always be looking for what things need to go to make room for the new. The better. The BEST! What things are in your life right now that you need to move out to make some space for faith in whatever God has next for you? When you do the hard work and deadhead those things, you can see the new growth coming in right behind.


Sunday, October 2, 2016

Dear Mom of Boys...

Dear mom of boys,

Isn't this boy parenting thing crazy?! As in, crazy fun, crazy hard, crazy CRAZY! Boys are awesome! And the best part, they are going to one day grow up to be men. Isn't it exciting that WE get to be part of that?!

My son is a teenager now. I'm not even sure when that happened! One minute he was the rambunctious 6 year old who knew how to do EVERYTHING and was completely stubborn and opinionated, and the next minute, he's a half grown man who has mellowed out and is still stubborn and opinionated. For YEARS, I thought I was doing everything wrong and just ruining him. (Some days I still think that.) But really, he has turned out to be a great guy who I really love hanging out with! Here are some things I've learned along the way. I totally wish someone would have told me these things earlier! But really, I probably wouldn't have listened. Some things you just have to learn the hard way.

1. God wired boys differently. It's OK if they don't want to color!! Really! It doesn't matter later on in life if they sat with you and did those cute worksheets. They were made to run and play and conquer and dominate. Let them get dirty. Really dirty! Give them opportunities to do BOY things! Let them climb trees and built forts and learn to work with tools (age appropriate, of course) and go hunting and fishing and be in charge of things. They NEED that!

2. As much as I love my son (and all of my girls), I am NOT his BFF and he is NOT mine! I am his MOM and his parent! Which means I love him enough NOT to let him do anything he wants. And when he acts like he knows it all and isn't going to listen to me, I have the right to discipline him. It took awhile, but I have grown some really thick skin. I have absolutely NO PROBLEM taking away his phone (GASP!), snatching the computer out from under him (WHAT!), making him do extra chores because of a bad attitude (I'M SO MEAN!), or anything else I deem fitting. (No dessert after supper?? Oh yeah!) Mama, don't feel bad for telling your baby NO! Because there will be PLENTY of times in this life when he will NOT get his way. Do you want to prepare him for that, or leave him dumbfounded when he gets fired from job after job as an adult because he can't take no for an answer? And teach them to be RESPECTFUL, for crying out loud! Even if they are upset about your decision, they can still show respect. Respect your decisions, respect you as an adult, respect authority, respect other adults, respect people's time... JUST BE RESPECTFUL!! 

3. It's OK to make your sweet boy do actual WORK! Small boys can pick up toys or help put away dishes and laundry. Bigger boys can do harder things like taking out the trash and mowing the lawn. There is absolutely NO REASON I should be killing myself to try to get it all done while my son sits inside playing video games or watching TV. It breeds resentment in your spirit, mama! Young men don't need everything handed to them without having some skin in the game. Let them work for it! If they want dinner, they have to help set the table. If they want clean clothes, they need to wash them. If they want a car, they'd better find a way to earn some money.

4. Let dad help! This one took me years to work through. My husband works and I stay home with the kids. Which means I am the one primarily with them. So in my mind, I was the one to teach them everything and only I got to discipline them. And let me tell you, when Mr. Right tried to go against that, it was not pretty. But God has shown me that dad's are parents, too, and they are actually supposed to be the one IN CHARGE! I finally sat down one day and told my son I was not going to bat for him anymore. Mr. Right had just as much parenting rights as I, and if dad wanted to discipline him or assign a chore or anything else, it was between the two of them. And I actually stay out of it! Having your spouse take half the burden is HUGE and FREEING!! Let me just say, this took me several years to pray and work through, so don't feel like a failure if you're just getting started on this one. (Disclaimer: I realize not everyone is married or has a good relationship with an ex. Please know, I am not talking about you! Being a single parent has got to be crazy hard, and I am sure you are doing everything you can! Be blessed, sister!)

5. You are raising up future men and husbands. Ladies, this is huge. Don't miss this one. Boys are just men in small bodies. They are exactly like God made them and intended them to be from the time they were born. Encourage that! Men are to be protectors and providers. They are to be stability and security. The Bible says our husbands are to be the leaders of our homes. Raise your boys so that they are prepared to lead their family when they leave you. Because as much as you love coddling them and making them play dolls with you and all sorts of other girly things to help feed your need for friendship, they will one day leave you. It's the sad truth. Our goal as mom's (and dad's) is to raise our boys so they will one day be great men in the world who make a difference! And to be great husbands to someone's baby girl! Trust me, as a mom of girls, too, I WANT someone who is raising real men! I want someone for each of my girls who will take care of them, and not some bratty adult who refuses to do anything and needs everything handed to them. Don't try to make them like you. THEY AREN'T GIRLS! They are BOYS who need to be taught to be MEN!

Mama, I know that sweet boy of yours has your heart. My son certainly has mine! But the best thing we could ever do for them is to raise them up like God expects, give them to God instead of trying to hang on (because He loves them even more than we do!), and watch God's plan for your young man unfold.


Thursday, August 25, 2016

Hobbies

It has been said that you should find three hobbies you love: 

One to make you money
One to keep you in shape
One to be creative. 

I have tried for years to figure out what that saying meant. Because honestly, I didn't have any hobbies. None. There were a few things (as in, I can count them on two fingers) that I occasionally enjoyed, but really, I never had time for any of them. My life was spent running from one thing to another, rarely slowing down long enough to enjoy the moment anywhere I was. I had no time for anything extra. 

BUT, I can't even begin to tell you how much time I have "found" since being purposeful in slowing down my life! I have started doing some things I never had time to do, and a few things I never realized I even liked! It has been amazing! The hardest thing is just deciding which of the new hobbies I want to do each night! I've pretty much hopped from one thing to another, but it has been fun. And relaxing. And peaceful. And OH MY WORD, I LIKE THINGS! Who knew?!

One to be creative:


I have picked up painting... just for fun! I have painted a few props (OK, several props) for my children's ministry rooms in the past, but I've never taken time to just paint something for the sheer pleasure of it. A few weeks ago, on a lazy Sunday afternoon, I decided to paint this door sign. It took me HOURS! I had glued the pallet wood together the day before, and I painted the red before church. So by that afternoon, all I had to do was pick a font and the extra decor and then paint it. I have begun to really love fleur-de-lis! They are resembling of an iris, which I think are beautiful! So this lovely sign is now hanging on my front door to greet anyone who happens to drop by. 


I have started cooking again!! And I absolutely love it! I have spent countless hours in my kitchen with a glass of wine and some classical music playing, and just cooking up something delicious to feed my family's hungry tummies. It is beyond satisfying to see their eyes light up when they see what I've put in front of them, and to hear them say how much they love it. These lovelies, my friends, are what you call "cat head" biscuits. That means I made them super big, because that way you don't need to go back for a second biscuit. 


And I learned to crochet! Oh my word, I really, really like it! I have said for years as I watched my oldest crochet, "I have no time or patience to sit and do that." But a few days ago, I took my girl to town, bought some yarn, and asked her to show me how to make the stitches. I wanted to start with something relatively easy, so she showed me a granny square and how to make it into a blanket. My sweet girl asked if she could have my blanket for her baby. She hasn't stopped carrying it around since I gave it to her. 




One to keep you in shape:


I have taken up gardening again! Granted, it's not nearly as big and spectacular as my 7 16ft raised beds I once had. It's just a small 5X8 cinderblock bed with a few okra, tomatoes, pumpkins, bell peppers, and lettuces. And I have a small raised bed with some lavender and rosemary and mint. But it is perfect. And digging around in that dirt is super helping to keep me in shape. And I love playing in the dirt! 


One to make you money:


I am hosting a bread making workshop OH MY WORD! Baking bread is one of my favorite things in the whole world, and one of the few things I am really good at! So I decided to share that love with other ladies who wanted to learn how to bake bread. My first workshop booked up in TWO DAYS! So I decided to offer another workshop for the other ladies who didn't get in to the first. HOW EXCITING! It's coming up in a few weeks, and I can't wait! 

(P.S. If you want in on the second workshop on October 15, 2016, leave me a comment below or shoot me a message. It's going to fill up quickly!)


AND... (drum roll, please...) I AM GETTING CHICKENS!! WOOHOO!! I am BEYOND EXCITED about that fact, and I absolutely cannot wait to get them here! I am holding off ordering until Mr. Right is able to finish my coop. But as soon as I get the go-ahead, they will be on their way to me! And that will be a whole 'nother blog post, as I will swamp you with tons of pics of their fluffy selves! 

I also planted a vineyard! (OK, 2 muscadine vines, but IT'S A VINEYARD, PEOPLE!) And I am thinking about getting a few ducks, honeybees, and, if I can talk Mr. Right into it, a milk goat! I am officially calling my little slice of heaven a homestead! We are calling it A&E Farms. This 3 acres of land makes me happy. 

I can't even believe I have gone this long in life without some fun hobbies - things that just make me happy. And I have quite a few other ideas floating around in my head that I plan to try soon. I am going to have a plethora of hobbies! I seriously do not ever plan to go back to a life without all of this! 

Do you have something that makes you super happy? Something you just love to do in your down time? I'd love to hear about your hobbies! 



Monday, August 8, 2016

Slow Food: Chicken Pot Pie

One of the things I have loved most about slowing down life has been cooking with my kids. I've never really had the time (or so I thought) or the patience (because I was in such a hurry) to let them help me much. Which really, when I think about it, is very sad. They all love to cook! (Well, everyone except my oldest, who only wants to roll sushi.) But I was never letting them have the joy or experience of cooking. So now, I find myself being purposeful about cooking with each of them. And it has been amazing.  

I do have some rules that they each follow. 
1. One at a time, preferably, is all I can sanely teach. 
2. If they are going to help cook, they are required to help clean up after we are finished. 
3. And if there is something specific they want to make (besides just assisting with my pre-planned meals), they absolutely must tell me in advance and put the ingredients on my grocery list. I still do not love scrambling to make something that I'm not prepared for!

Beyond those things, there aren't too many other rules. Just go slow, listen, and have fun. Oh, and music. We must have music playing! 

It was my handsome young man's turn to cook with me, so I told him to think about what he'd like to fix for his supper meal. It didn't take much thinking. He wanted to make homemade chicken pot pie - one of my favorites! We made everything from scratch. It took 2 hours, plus bake time, to make this baby, which gave him a new appreciation for the work that goes into cooking good food for your family. But in the end, it was worth every minute! We spent time together, he learned a lot, he had fun, and everybody raved over his meal that he cooked. 

Here is the recipe, in case you'd like to take time with your own kids (or maybe just by yourself in the quiet!) to make this delicious supper. 


Start with a really big pot. You'll need to boil your chicken and make homemade chicken broth, so it needs to be big enough for all of it to fit. 


Rinse the chicken well. If there is a packet of giblets inside the cavity, take it out. Throw it away! Seriously, I can't even understand why anybody would eat all of that! 

This was his first time dealing with raw chicken. It was not pleasant for him. 



Put the chicken in the huge pot, give it a good douse of salt, and cover it with water. Turn your stove top on high until it starts to boil. At that point, cut the heat down until it is just simmering. If you forget to do that step, it will foam and boil over on your stove, and let me just tell you, there is no more horrid smell than boiled-over-burnt-chicken! 

As the chicken cooks, the water will boil out all the good stuff from the marrow of the chicken bones. This leaves you with a fabulous homemade broth! (Some of the broth we used for this recipe, and I froze the rest in gallon bags to use in soups later.)


Next, mix up your pie crust. Since our chicken pot pie was going to have a crust on the bottom and covering the top, we made a bigger batch of crust. 

We used:
3 Cups all-purpose flour
1/2 to 1 tsp salt
1 Cup Crisco shortening
Mix all of these together with a pastry cutter, fork, or your fingers until it's nice and crumbly.
Then add:
10-12 Tablespoons of ice cold water. 
Mix in the water until you have a nice, soft dough. Cover it with plastic wrap and stick it in the fridge to rest until you are ready to roll it out.





When the crust is finished, get your eggs started. Boil 4-6 eggs.


Peel and cut up 4-6 potatoes, or however many you'd like. Some potatoes are smaller and you might need a few more. Cut them into bite-size chunks. Cover them with water, and put them on the stove top to simmer. Keep an eye on these, because they will foam and boil over on you in a heartbeat! 




Big sister to the rescue! We were working on other parts of the pie and she came in right as it was about to boil over! 

When your potatoes are cooked (you can poke them with a fork and it slides in easily), drain them in a colander and let them cool while you work on the next things. 


Peel and cut up 2-4 carrots (more or less, depending on your family's taste.) Drop 'em in a nice cast iron skillet. No worries if you don't have one. Any skillet will do. 


To the carrots, add an onion chopped up small and a whole stick of BUTTER! Saute all of these around for a few minutes until the butter is nicely melted and the onions are clear. (The carrots will continue to cook during the final bake, so don't worry if they are still a little crunchy here.) Add in 1/4 Cup of all-purpose flour. Mix it in really good, because this is your thickener and you don't want lumps. 


Your chicken should have been cooking for about 45 minutes and should be cooked by this point. The way you tell is to see if the leg tries to break apart from the rest of the bird as you lift it out of the pot. If it's done, the whole thing should really be falling apart! (No, this is not a scientific way to "test doneness", and I'm sure some of you out there are gasping at my complete disregard for meat thermometers. But trust me, this works!) 

Put your chicken in a bowl or somewhere it can cool. When you can touch it without burning your fingers off, peel off the skin and start taking the meat off the bones. For this recipe, I used about half of the meat from this bird, and I froze the rest for later use. 


All of your ingredients are ready now! Grab another big bowl and start tossing stuff in. 
1. Dump in your cooled potatoes. 
2. Add your carrot/onion/butter mixture. 
3. Chop up 4-6 eggs (however many you want) on top of that. 
4. Add in a can of store-bought Lesueur English peas and a can of cream of chicken soup . 
5. And finally, put your chicken on top of everything. 
(Don't forget salt and pepper!!) 
With a big spoon or spatula, start mixing it all together. It will be a little "dry", so pour in a little bit of your homemade chicken broth and milk - SLOWLY! You don't want to get too much and make soup! But if you add about a half cup at a time, you can judge it for moistness very easily. Just alternate between the broth and milk until it looks nice. 

Time to pull that crust out of the fridge! Roll out half of the dough into a nice, long rectangle that will be big enough to fit in the bottom of your pan and hang over the sides a bit. 



Pour all of your filling into the pan. Smooth it out nicely so it all fits well. If you have too much, no worries! You can freeze the extra or just stick it in a container in the fridge to eat later as-is. It's that good!




Roll out the second half of the dough into a slightly smaller rectangle than the first. Lay it on top of the filling, and try to get it covering the whole top. Take the dough hanging over the sides and just fold it up over the top. You can take a little water on the end of your finger and "seal" the dough so it's less likely that the filling will cook out. 

Poke some holes in the top so the steam can get out. You can just poke them randomly or make a lovely pattern. My handsome guy is quite artistic, so he opted to make a pattern.


This is what it should look like. Pop it in the oven at 375 for 45 minutes to an hour. Ours took closer to an hour to finish. 


Really, everything in the pie (except the crust) is already cooked when you put it in the oven. So what you're really waiting for here is just a nice, golden brown crust. It takes awhile to achieve this perfection! So just go clean the kitchen or take a break while you wait. Don't rush!

This is what it should look like when you pull it out. Give it a few minutes to cool before you dig into it - if you can wait that long! 



One thing we decided to do differently next time we make this - we'll make a double batch! This takes so long to get everything ready and make it all from scratch. So it would have been great to just double it and stick one in the freezer. If you do decide to freeze one, do so before the final bake. Just make sure you cover it well, and pull it out of your freezer the morning you want to cook it for supper. It will be thawed and ready to go by the time you are ready to cook it. It will still take almost an hour to cook, though, so plan for that. 

This was so worth all the work! Everyone absolutely loved it, even my baby girl who doesn't like anything even close to this, and they all bragged about how great he did. And the whole chicken pot pie was GONE within 2 days! 

I hope you'll try this recipe for your family sometime. If you do, come back here and let me know how it went! I'd love to hear your story!






Monday, July 25, 2016

Redirected...

I was a children's pastor for seven years. OK, so some say I was just a "children's director" because I didn't have any formal credentials saying I was a "pastor". Whatever. I did WAY more than just oversee and direct a children's ministry. I was in the trenches shepherding children's hearts! Day in and day out, Sunday after Sunday, I was doing the work of ministry. And it was important stuff!

I remember the day when God redirected my life and called me into children's ministry. It was scary and exciting all at the same time. Things began to happen, and God began to move, and I knew I was right where I was supposed to be.

I spent years working with mentors, reading quite a few children's ministry and leadership books, and trying to be faithful to the calling God had placed on my life. I was doing my darndest to learn everything I could, so I could do the best job possible. God deserved my very best, and I was determined to give it. I never had a church office, so my work came home with me - every single minute of every single day. My thoughts were consumed with the next weeks of lessons, the upcoming big event, the workers I was overseeing. My counter and table were littered with ministry stuff ALL THE TIME! I stayed crazy mad busy for Jesus! It became all consuming, and every part of my life revolved around ministry.

And then, just as quickly as God called me into ministry, I remember the day He said I was to step out. And it was scary and exciting all at the same time. And it was sad and confusing. God had used me for so many years to lead His children, and now I was done? So much work! So much sacrifice to learn and do and be more! So much neglect of my kids and my husband and my house, so that I could do more for Jesus! How in the world could this be IT??

But as the weeks went on, and as God spoke tenderly to my heart, and as I now had actual TIME and QUIET to hear Him, He began to show me some things. He showed me that my work in children's ministry was done, at least for now. He helped me to see how I had become so caught up in the "good work of ministry" that I had pushed my family aside. He showed me that there was more to life than just church. And He helped me to have peace in my heart to let it go.

So my life was redirected. It was confusing. And scary. And pretty sad, too, I must say. But I'm learning to be happy in the every day stuff of life. I'm learning to go at a much slower pace and savor every moment. I'm redirecting my attention to spend the time I do have with my husband and my four kids. And I am finding contentment in every part of my life.


A few big things I have learned through this:

1. I don't have to have a big children's ministry to lead to be important. It's OK to just be mom to four kids. No, the world will not praise you for doing that, but it is great and noble work and God is very pleased with it!

2. I don't need to lead a team of volunteers to feel that I am making a difference. It's OK to just be a wife and to minister to and serve my husband every day. No it's not flashy, and it often looks like keeping the house clean and cooking a good, hot meal for him after he's worked all day. But it's important. And supporting my spouse while he works to take care of us is a huge thing! And when I do it with a cheerful heart, God is pleased.

3. I don't have to be on a stage or leading a group of people to be really living out my calling. My calling is being obedient to God in each thing He calls me to do each day in my home. It's not so much the "big picture" or that thing way off in the future that is our calling, but the day in and day out obedience and faithfulness with what we have been entrusted by God right where we are.

4. I don't need praise or affirmation from people. I don't need to do more, work harder, go faster, plan bigger so that people are happy with me. I need to look to God to affirm what I do each day. And if I am seeking to please Him in my own little corner of the earth, that is really all that matters.

5. It is OK for me to slow down in life. I don't have to live at a break-neck pace thinking that there is so much to do and so little time! I can enjoy cooking with my kids and reading a book that I love. I can spend an evening on the couch with my husband doing absolutely nothing and enjoying every minute of it! I can relax and take my time in everything I do without feeling like I'm going to let someone down because I'm not going fast enough. I can have an actual HOBBY!!

6. God knows the talents and skills He has put inside of me. If He ever has need of me to use them in another more public setting again in the future, He will show me. He will not forget the things He has taught me. And for today, He expects me to use those talents and skills to run a household and manage school for four kids. And THAT, my friends, is a huge job!

We don't always understand why God redirects our lives. But when He does, it is always for the better.

Has there been a point in your life where you've seen God turn you around? How has your life changed since that time? I'd love to hear about it in the comments below!

Friday, July 22, 2016

Southern Slow Food: Pecan Praline Sweet Rolls

I live in the Deep South where pecans are abundant. Every year, the kids and I try to go and pick up pecans from some lovely soul's home or business. To keep the kids interested while doing the monotonous work of pecan picking, I tell them it's like hunting for Easter eggs, so they'd better get to it! The one with the most pecans wins! May I just say, it never works. Pecans are not lovely eggs filled with chocolates, and the kids soon get bored and I am left to do the work - which I do not love. So usually, we end up just buying some at a local produce stand.  I try to get enough for the entire year, because, well, they are only in season for a short time and you'd better get them while you can! And there are SO many amazing foods to be made using pecans!

One of my favorite things is pecan praline. You can make this yummy, sugary stuff into a syrup to put over pancakes, candies that melt in your mouth and cause you to hear angels singing, or, my favorite, a topping/glaze for baked things!

Today, I want to share another of my favorite Southern slow foods - pecan praline sweet rolls! These lovelies are just amazing! Granted, it takes several hours to make these, but they are definitely worth it! Plus, if you make these over the weekend, you can surprise your family with a lovely Sunday morning breakfast before heading out to church. THAT, my friends, is a WIN!

Start out by scalding 1C of milk. If, like me, you had no idea what "scalding milk" is, let me explain. You are going for milk that has been heated to almost boiling, but not quite boiling. Use a whisk to keep it from burning to the bottom of your pot (which it will do very quickly!!), and also to get the milk nice and frothy! It should look like this when you're done. 


Take the pot off the heat, and drop in half a stick of butter (use REAL BUTTER here, people!). Let the milk cool down and the butter melt while you work on the next few steps. 


In a Pyrex measuring container (or a bowl), add 2 packages of active dry yeast, 1 Tablespoon of sugar (white or brown), and 2/3C warm (NOT HOT) water. If your water is too hot, it will kill your yeast and your rolls won't rise! Better to be on the cooler side than too hot!

This is what the mixture starts out looking like.


And this is what you have after 5-10 min. This is what you are going for. 


While your yeast mixture is rising and your scalded milk is cooling, mix together 2 eggs, 1/2C sugar, 1 1/2 tsp salt, and 1/2 tsp freshly grated nutmeg. 

My friend, Amy, brought this fresh nutmeg back straight from Guyana just for me!! She is the best! It comes in a shell (just like any other nut - which I did not know when I got these!), so be sure to crack it before trying to grate it. Yes, I tried that. Let me just say, nutmeg shells just don't grate well. (Ignore the expiration date! I keep them in my freezer, so they are still fabulous!) But do not worry! If you don't have a friend going to Guyana anytime soon, or if you can't find this in the grocery store, just use some already ground nutmeg from the spice section!




By now, your milk should be cooled and your yeast should be well risen. Add it all to your lovely bowl. Then start mixing in 5 1/2C plain flour. You're going to have to mix it about a cup at a time, and it gets pretty thick. So when you can't use your whisk anymore, just get your hands in there and get them messy! 


Now you need it to turn into a lovely dough ball. So start adding more flour and mixing in by hand. All total, I used 7C of plain flour in this batch, but yours could end up with more or less depending on things like the weather and humidity in your house. When you finish, though, it should look like this - a lovely dough ball that isn't sticky anymore and stays altogether. 


Stick this baby on a counter and cover it with plastic. Leave it alone until it looks like it's about to rise out of your bowl. Like this...


Take the plastic off and give it a good punch down. Really get out some stress here!


Take a sharp knife and cut it right down the middle. Unless you have a ton of counter space (which I do not!), you will need to make 2 rolls out of this dough. I actually use the top of my stove to roll my dough, because it's a nice, big area. And it just barely fits. 

Roll out one chunk of that dough into a long rectangle. (Be sure to cover your bowl back up, so the other dough chunk doesn't dry out.) 

** Please notice my amazing rolling pin. My amazing Mr. Right hand turned this lovely thing on his wood lathe for me several years ago. It is my favorite rolling pin ever! He's the best!


Take a second to mix up your filling, if you haven't done it already. To make the pecan praline, you need a stick of butter, a cup of chopped pecans, and a cup of brown sugar. If you really love this stuff, make a double batch! Use a pastry cutter or just your fingers to mix all of this up really well. 

Use a few Tablespoons of vegetable oil or melted butter to give your dough a good rub down. You want something that your filling will stick to, so get that oil/butter all over the top of that rolled out dough. 

Sprinkle cinnamon and sugar mixture all over the top of the dough. Remember that you have another chunk of dough to roll out after this, so be sure to divide your filling in half. Or just make more. Or make the second roll just cinnamon and sugar. Lots of options here, people! 

Take your pecan praline filling and put it on half of the dough. You're only going to put it on half, because, as you roll it up, it sometimes tries to sneak out the other side. You need room on your roll to avoid this catastrophe! Go slow, work from one of the long sides, and start rolling up the dough. 



Now that you have a nice, long roll, grab a really sharp knife. Cut the roll into slices about 1 inch wide. Lay the circles on a greased pan. Spray the tops of the rolls with Pam and cover them with plastic. Stick them on the counter and let them rise until they are about double in size. This will take about an hour. 


After these had risen as much as I wanted them to, I put some of my pecan praline filling on top of each one. As they cook, the butter would melt into each roll and leave a sugary, buttery goodness!


Into the oven they go! Cook them at 375 degrees for about 20-25 min. I always use at least one glass pan, so I can see the bottoms. If the bottoms are golden, they are done! 

While these babies are cooking, take a minute to mix up an icing glaze. All you need is about a cup of powdered sugar and a couple Tablespoons of milk. Use enough milk to make it as thick or thin of an icing as you'd like. And if you get too much milk, no worries! Just add a little more powdered sugar! You can really never have too much icing!

After they come out of the oven, pour your glaze on them immediately. The hot sweet rolls will suck that icing right in, and it will be just fabulous! This is the finished product!


Thankfully, this recipe makes several pans of sweet rolls!! Because my children were standing around watching them cook and waiting until the moment I pulled them out, so they could grab one for a snack! And then we had them again for breakfast this morning!

There are lots of variations to this recipe. If you don't live where you can easily get pecans, use walnuts. If you don't like nuts, go with just cinnamon and sugar. You can really fill these sweet rolls with any number of things! 

If you give these a try, I'd love to hear how they turn out for you. And how your family loved them. And how your weekend was just perfect because you took some time to cook for your family. 


Pecan Praline Sweet Rolls

1 C milk
1/4 C real butter

2 packages active dry yeast
1 Tablespoon sugar
2/3 C warm water

1/2 C sugar
2 eggs
1 1/2 tsp salt
1/2 tsp freshly grated nutmeg

5 1/2 C plain flour (plus more for kneading)

Filling: 
1 C chopped pecans
1 stick butter
1 C brown sugar

Directions:
Scald milk. Remove from heat and add butter. Allow to cool completely. 

Mix together yeast, sugar, and water, and let rise for 5-10 min or until very bubbly.

In a large bowl, mix together remaining sugar, eggs, salt and nutmeg. Add in bubbly yeast and cooled milk/butter mixture. 

Mix in flour, 1 C at a time. After mixing in the 5 1/2 C, begin kneading in extra flour, 1 C at a time, until you get a smooth, elastic dough that is no longer sticky. Allow to rise until doubled, about 1-2 hours. 

While dough is rising, mix up the filling. Using a pastry cutter, fork, or fingers, mix together the butter, brown sugar, and pecans until you have a nice crumble that is well incorporated. 

When dough has risen, punch down. Cut the dough in half. Roll out one half of the dough into a rectangle. Oil top of dough, and add filling. Roll up into a long tube, and cut into 1" circles. Place on a greased baking sheet, cover, and allow to rise until sweet rolls are double in size. Repeat with remaining half of the dough. After rolls have risen, add extra topping, if desired, and put in a preheated 375 degree oven for 20-25 min. 

A powdered sugar icing/glaze can be added when the sweet rolls are taken out of the oven. Eat while hot, or cover and save for tomorrow's breakfast!